We have had a major victory here in the last two weeks in our Potty Training! Two week ago last friday our 4.5yo, who has been having an amazingly difficult mastering bowel training, walked into the bathroom independently an put his poop in the potty.
Some of you might be thinking, “Um, yeah, that’s what 4.5yo’s do.” or “big whoop” or “so what?” If you are, then you haven’t been keeping up around here 😉 LOL! Let me tell you, until you have a child that cant use the potty you just don’t understand how hard life can be. Especially if that child is a withholder. Its a whole ‘nother level of frustration… for everyone. Just count your blessings and rejoice with us!
I couldn’t believe it when I I heard the bathroom door open, the toilet lid go up, silence, then a loud “Mommy! I did it! I did it!!!” I ran in there to find him sitting there with a large Yuletide Poop Log in the toilet and a totally clean diaper. Not even the faintest Bacon Mark. (sorry for the Bacon blaspemy… it was term I heard as a child and it stuck). What a victory for him!
Now it was important for him to start his Pee training again. We took things really slow and had an entire week of success, followed by a week of constipation and accidents, then two days of independent toilet use! This is incredible! I am so happy for my little guy and his success. Most importantly, I’m happy for his condifence.
Thank you all for your support, prayers, thoughts, helpful advice, patience, concern and hope! Things are looking better this time of year and we are incredibly grateful! Love all of you!
On a side note, there have been several people who have been helping me find myself these last six months and I’m so thankful for them. But there is one person who I really admire. She’s a nursing mom, with 3 kids and a love and talent for playing video games. She is also a positive force in a culture that can be elitest and I admire her and love her with all my heart. She’s been a virtual friend in the Twittervese and FaceBookdom and though I’ve never met her, her honesty and caring nature has inspired me. She has helped me to resolve my identity issues simply by being herself. I just wanted to thank you here, Carrie (@Keeba13). Cyber-hugs to you from your Virtual friend who is virtually unknown to you, but admires you immensely. I wish the best of weeks and the Happiest of Christmas’.
❤ Jen 😉